Happy 2011 !

Happy New Year everyone !

Hahas oh my god ,

time for a new year resolution again ! :D

Let me recap what was my new year resolution last year …

It was something about finding a new close friend or something ,

hahas but this year’s new year’s resolution is gonna change .

Yup ,

got a few new year’s resolution this year .

‘Be the master of your fate, be the captain of your soul, but do not hesitate, should the chance befall you, to be the slave of your heart.’ -Robert Brault

First up ,

Studies .

Next year is my A level already .

So I aim to study harder than this year !

I must stop depending on luck to pass my exams or whatsoever .

So yup ,

I must believe that I’m the master of my own fate .

And only if I put in the hard work ,

then can I succeed in A levels , in life .

‘Sometimes the only way you can take a really good look at yourself is through somebody else's eyes.’ -From the television show Scrubs

‘Just remember, there's a right way and a wrong way to do everything and the wrong way is to keep trying to make everybody else do it the right way.’

‘Don't ever take a fence down until you know why it was put up. ‘ -Robert Frost

Yup yup ,

another character that I must improve is to learn to accept other’s opinions better ,

and be less critical .

Ever since Orientation planning started ,

everyone’s complaining that I became very critical .

Well I guess it’s cause I expected a lot ,

and it’s like I don’t wish anyone to screw up any parts of the orientation .

But actually I know ,

no one wants to screw up orientation ,

and like ,

everyone’s has the ability to decide right from wrong .

So I must learn to let go .

And it’s wrong to force others to accept your view and your way of doing things ,

without telling them ,

or talking them into it .

And like ,

can’t be quick to shoot down others idea before knowing the rationale behind it .

In 2010 I have seen much examples of these kind of things happened ,

so yup ,

to prevent any spoiling of relationship with my fellow council peeps ,

I must change . :D

‘Never miss an opportunity to make others happy, even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it.’

‘A relationship becomes easier when you realize that you don't have to be the one at fault to be the one who's sorry.’ -Robert Brault

‘Never explain. Your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe it anyway.’ -Elbert Hubbard, A Thousand and One Epigrams, 1911

Hmm yup ,

the three quotes on top just describe what I need to do in this new 2011 .

The same reason why I do art ,

I need to apply it into my life .

Which is I hope that everyone around me will be happy in this 2011 .

Thought it’s more difficult this year ,

because everyone’s going to be filled with lots of things ,

including studies’ pressure and etc ,

so trying to no freaked out ,

stressed out ,

and feeling down ,

breaking down ,

it’s no easy feat .

Must stop giving excuses to anything that I’ve done wrong .

Hahas .

This is hard ,

especially when I love to argue :P

But I will try .

(:

‘Never make your home in a place. Make a home for yourself inside your own head. You'll find what you need to furnish it - memory, friends you can trust, love of learning, and other such things. That way it will go with you wherever you journey’. -Tad Williams

I really love this quote .

Because I think that was what I was doing for the previous one year .

Till now in my memories ,

I found friends that I can trust ,

I found love for learning – in terms of leadership experiences ,

and many more fond memories ,

I guess the home that will journey wherever I’m is like 70% done ,

or at least I’m 70% satisfied .

Hahas and of course ,

there was something missing ,

I guessed I lacked family warmth .

This year ,

I don’t know ,

but whatever my parents did just irked me .

I detested them for doing things that I hate ,

or at least ,

things that harms not only us ,

but themselves too .

I guess I was too worried .

And I guess I was in for only big talks ,

but no actions .

I guess I could have contributed to my family ,

but I didn’t .

So yup ,

I think to prevent from having too much regrets in my life ,

(noticed I used ‘much’ cause regrets are almost infinite)

I need to start doing something this year .

Hahaha .

Have a lot to say this part ,

but I guess now a bit tired to type out everything le .

And I think I shall ...

Conclude my entire resolution with two new quotes ,

Fear less, hope more; eat less, chew more; whine less, breathe more; talk less, say more; hate less, love more; and all good things are yours. ~Swedish Prover

Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, a touch that never hurts. ~Charles Dickens

Okay ,

blog some other time :D

Having a fun time at Nicole’s house ! :D

Happy 2011 all !!!