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To my dearest BB .
Sunday, November 14, 2010 | 12:30 PM |
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2009 may never come back again .
But have you ever thought of having a year that's better than 2009 ?
You didn't .
Because your mind is in a state of turmoil now .
Despondency, dejected, pessimistic, negative, anger, irritated,
most important ,
confused .
You yourself put the quote that said ,
"More than anything else, I believe it's our decisions, not the conditions of our lives, that determine our destiny." -- Anthony Robbins
You said it ,
our decisions determine our destiny ,
so why say everyone's trying to screw your life when you have the decision to make it not screw ?
It's sad to see you get screwed for your life ,
but know what's sadder ?
It's that ,
you said we're the ones screwing up you ,
when what we really just trying our best to help you .
Are you facing other problems ?
Or is it just him who made you feel like this ?
It's not worth to quarrel over a guy ,
seriously .
And the only way to prevent that ,
is to not be bothered by what other's is doing to your friendship .
You may not know this ,
but you're subconsciously dragging and pulling out your trust from this friendship of yours .
Ask yourself ,
why are you so bothered by him bothering her ?
Why will you react in such a way ?
If you had complete trust on her ,
the most you will do is to tease her about it .
But you have taken it to a serious level ,
and it's scaring her .
I think I've lost you my friend ,
I'm trying hard to analyze your thoughts ,
trying really hard .
Remember how we used to talk to each other about our problems when we had wushu .
How we gave each other comments .
You know i always cherished how we gave advices to solve each other's problem .
Have you forgotten ?
But right now it pains us to see you ,
locking up yourself ,
refusing to take in anyone's opinions ,
nor advices .
I told you to believe me ,
that being irritated and angered will confirm make you neglect what your friend feels .
Even if you try hard to put it into consideration ,
it will only be along the line of your thoughts ,
your feelings ,
your emotions ,
and you will make decisions that never ,
never ,
never were beneficial for your problems .
Cause you failed to think for your friend .
You should try stepping into her shoes and think .
"What crap are you talking about ?"
Just tell me that you're trying to escape ,
and pushing all the cause of the problems and the blames to others .
That's wrong .
Very wrong .
That's not the BB I know .
The BB I know ,
always confide in me ,
cause her friends are in trouble ,
and she doesn't know how to help her friends .
It's not that you can't understand ,
but the fact that you don't want to .
You fell sick ,
my friend .
And I hope you get well soon .
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